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Pocket-Sized Garage Sale

If you’ve been coming here for a while, you know I’m pretty picky about what this space is used for. I don’t do reviews, I don’t sell stuff, I don’t do anything that I think would be a waste of my space or your time. So that’s why I’m using it today to tell you about my friend Jason’s book. (But you just said… Yep, I sure did. This is not a waste of space or time, trust me.)

But first let me tell you about my friend Jason Boyett.

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There’s this funny thing that happens in the blogging and publishing world where you find people you feel like are your friends just because of their words on the page reaching your heart, your humor, your self. But they don’t know you from anyone else that reads them, so it’s not really a friendship. But sometimes, if you’re so lucky, it is. That’s what happened with Jason.

He and I met through an online writing and networking group, and I was immediately drawn in by his complete honesty about faith struggles and by his ridiculously sharp wit. And then, when I’d only known him a few weeks, I suddenly found myself in need of work– and he found some for me right away. He and I are both freelance writers, and this kind of work is both awesome to have and easy to lose. He barely knew me, and he jumped at the chance to help me.

So that’s what I’m delighted to be able to do for him today.

A few years ago, Jason published the smart, funny, and actually helpful Pocket Guide to the Bible. Then, in order to re-release his book with a new publisher, Jason had to buy back all the old copies from his old publisher. That’s 9000 books. Dude.

He was able to store them at a church for a while, but last week, he lost that space. He also lost some contract work. Shit. So today Jason has a little over 1,400 copies taking over his garage, and he could use a little more cash than copies of his own book at this point. And the stupidest thing is, as long as they’re there, you can’t read ‘em. And Jason does good work.

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So unbeknownst to Jason, our writing/networking friends and I (here, here, here, here, and here and more to come) conspired to help him out. But we need your help too.

Over the next 2 weeks (starting today and going through Monday, May 20th) we want to sell all 1,400+ copies of Jason’s books for him so he can finally get his garage cleaned out and start using it as a garage instead of a giant book closet.

Just to be clear, we have no stake in this whatsoever other than trying to help a friend. In other words, we’re not getting any cut of the profits. We just don’t want our friend to keep having to be a literary hoarder.

And I told you this wouldn’t be a waste of your time– this is it means a sweet deal for you.

The book is only $4 AND Jason will sign personally sign your copy!

(Yes, we volunteered him without asking.)

The book is fantastic for group study too. So if you’re a pastor, small group leader, or Sunday School teacher, we’ve got a great deal if you want to buy in bulk. You can get an entire box of 48 books for only $48. That’s only $1 a box!

Need more?

We’ve got you covered.

Buy a box of 75 and it’s only $70. That’s less than $1 a book!!

You seriously can’t beat this deal.

But there’s one catch – YOU CAN’T BUY THEM ON AMAZON.

Yes, the book is available on Amazon (and you can check out a preview there), but it’s the re-release, not the copies piled up in Jason’s garage. Plus, those copies aren’t signed. But don’t worry, both versions are exactly the same.

So, help us help our friend.

Go to the Big Cartel page we’ve set up and buy a copy of Pocket Guide to the Bible today. Better yet, buy a box!

Just remember – this awesome sale only lasts for a couple of weeks or until all the copies have been sold.

Whether you buy a copy or a case, you’re helping a great guy and getting a great book. You can also help us out by tweeting and Facebooking the crap outta these posts. Thanks, friends!

UPDATE: We sold every single copy in just three days! Thanks so much for your support!

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Help me brainstorm for the book!

As What a Woman is Worth nears its projected May publication date, I’m working on plans for promoting it. And yesterday, as I was thinking about the names I’ve been called throughout my life, it occurred to me how powerful names are in creating identity.

One of the things I’d like to do in promoting the book is, perhaps through a short video, have women share the ugly names they’ve been called and then share the beautiful names they claim for themselves instead.

So today I am asking for your help brainstorming: What names have you ladies been called, or what names have any of you used or heard used to mislabel a woman?

When you think about these names, consider not only nouns, adjectives, and phrases that have been spoken out loud, but consider what names you have understood to have been called through actions as well; and don’t forget that the names you call yourself count too. For example, I have outright been called a “fucking bitch,” but through another’s action, I’ve been called “disposable,” and I’ve called myself “disgusting” more times than I can count.

I’d so appreciate your help in the comments. And don’t worry that we’re making a list of horrible names and leaving it at that for now– the first step in discarding garbage is uncovering it.

Thank you!

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ETA: I want to take the time to reply to everyone who has commented here or responded on Twitter and Facebook, but I am finding that when I read your pain, I take some of it on myself (something that has happened numerous times during this whole book process)– and I just can’t form the right words, so I have to just sit with you in the pain, in silence.

So please– know I am grateful for your sharing, know I am aching with you, and know that the words I want to speak to you are coming in this book, which you are helping me get ready to send out into the world.

xo, T.

 

Mixtape Mondays: Breakup

I had the pleasure of hosting Allison Weiss and her band this weekend when they stopped in my city on their March Radness tour. They put on a great show and are great people, as evidenced by the fact that I gave Allison my last Mega Stuf Oreo. You don’t do that for just anyone, let me tell you.

Allison played my favorite songs of hers at the show, and she talked a little bit about breakups before one of them– “Making it Up.” And I thought about how, maybe more than any other topic, breakups are such a common theme in songwriting.

The two things in life that we seem most in need of giving expression to are the having and the losing of love. We write from our overflow, and we write from our emptiness. And we listen to those songs because they give voice to the wide but universal range of feelings that each of us has about love and its loss.

I hope your heart is happy today. And if it’s not, I hope you’ll fill it with some rad music. And eat a Mega Stuf Oreo.

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What are your favorite breakup songs?

Mixtape Mondays: Speak

Last week was a huge landmark for What a Woman is Worth: After almost a year and a half of hard work and avoidance, of tears and triumph, I sent in the manuscript to the publisher. I ended up writing more of my own life story than I ever imagined I would, which made it far more difficult than I anticipated, but now that it’s done, I find enormous relief in having spoken.

There is something powerful about voice, about speaking, about opening up yourself in a way that you might really be heard. So today’s theme is “speak,” and whether you’re a writer or not, I’d encourage you to find the ways you need to do that– and do it.

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(I have no idea why Spotify lists the Noah Gundersen song as “Garden”– it’s actually “Honest Songs.”)

Let me know:

What are your favorite “speak” songs?

Mixtape Mondays: 100

This week I will finish the manuscript for What a Woman is Worth, and although it’s been a 16-month process, it has felt like my whole life. This week will also mark 100 days since an enormous, unexpected life change. And as I see my own story come out of me and into pages that I thought were just my project, I see that it is my whole life. It’s been 33 years in the writing and who knows how much longer and where the story will go. So I’m just inking out honesty best I can and letting go of needing to know the next chapter. I am learning gratitude for my story and openness to accept it, and 100 days can change a lot, most of all yourself, when you’re willing to allow it.

You can tell from the varied uses of 100 in the songs here that the concept is both grounding and distant, both so much and so little, depending on the perspective from which you look. A hundred years to live feels forever when you live it in loss; it feels fleeting when you live it in busyness. A hundred dollars is an enormous amount when you can barely afford bread; it’s far too little when you’re offered it for your soul. A hundred miles is an insurmountable distance when you’re going by foot; it’s nothing if you’re on a plane.

So for those joining the writing link-up this week, use the lens of 100 and stay open to the perspective you’re seeing. You might be surprised what it allows you to see of yourself.

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What are your favorite “100″ songs?

Mixtape Mondays: House & Home

I have always been fascinated by old houses. I grew up in a beautiful Victorian house in New England, and I was forever on the search for secret passageways– I just felt sure the house had some great adventures hidden within. I never found a passage, but I did manage to lift the old heating grate out of my second-story bedroom floor and drop a bucket down on a string into the kitchen in the middle of my parents’ party. I’m pretty sure they humored me by filling the bucket with whatever my requested item was, but the real glory was that, thanks to the old house’s design, I was making adventures of my own.

That house was my home for so many good years. It was where we became a family when my parents got married and my dad adopted me; it was where my baby brother joined us; it was where I got into trouble with the babysitter, had a backwards birthday party, and fell in love with lilacs.

The themes of house and home are prevalent in writing because of their universal necessity and emotional resonance. Everyone needs a house for their body; everyone needs a home for their soul. The songwriters in today’s playlist explore life journeys, a sense of belonging or of missing, and relationships– all centered around the theme of house or home. For those participating in the link-up, explore a way “house” or “home” has been especially meaningful to you.

Thanks to my friend Caeli of These Lonely Walls for the inspiration for this week’s theme!

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Let me know:

What are your favorite house or home songs?

Mixtape Mondays: Ghosts

I’ve been hard at work the past week writing my section introductions for What a Woman is Worth, and by that I mean, “having emotional breakdowns and hardly writing at all.” I am faced once again with ghosts of my past, and I will exorcise them– turn them from passive memory into active story, and I will be well– but the getting there is damned hard.

So this week’s theme is “ghosts.” For those interested in joining the blog link-up, take inspiration from these songwriters’ different uses of the ghost metaphor– a thing, person, or memory that haunts you; an emptiness or fear inside you; a love lost; a past to be left behind; an intangible longing. And keep in mind that ghost stories don’t necessarily have to be sinister or sad– there can be holiness raised from darkness, and spirit reborn.

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Let me know:

What are your favorite ghost songs?

Mixtape Mondays: Covered

Last week I began Mixtape Mondays with the simple idea of sharing some good music here because music and writing are my hand-in-hand loves, and I know the same is true for a lot of the people who read this blog. But because I’m doing it thematically and because a big part of my job as an editor is helping people direct their thoughts toward better writing, I quickly realized the potential the series has to be a writing prompt. So I’m including a link-up at the bottom of the post for anyone who’d like to participate– just come back and add your link throughout the week.

This week’s theme is “covered.” All the songs in my playlist are covers where the artist has taken someone else’s song and reimagined it. The best covers bring something new to a song, whether through different arrangement, instrumentation, or vocalization. (I’m not a big fan of covers that sound almost exactly like the original– that’s called karaoke.)

The key to a good cover isn’t in being a copycat– it’s in bringing something of yourself to the piece so that it’s transformed.

So, for this week’s writing prompt, take a piece of writing– a poem, a Bible story, a folk tale, a song, anything that inspires you– and reimagine it. (You can check out how I’ve done this in the past with a poem and a parable.) Cover it with yourself, your story, your imagination, your perspective. And don’t forget to come back and drop us a link!

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What are your favorite cover songs?